Hi!

I'm Urška and I create content (podcasts, vlog, blog, e-books) connected to my top core values - family, health and personal growth. My purpose is to follow my inner voice and live aligned with my truth. I feel that the more we are connected with ourselves and nature, the happier and healthier we are. I wish to inspire others to return to their true essence and nature because that is all we actually need in life to be fulfilled and free.

MOJE TOP VREDNOTE

Zdravje

Družina & odnosi

Svoboda

Osebna rast

Prijaznost

MOJE TOP VREDNOTE

Zdravje

Družina & odnosi

Svoboda

Osebna rast

Prijaznost

I love my two boys – they are my biggest inspiration and remind me every day about the importance of flow, connection and joy. My husband is a funny, incredibly talented and resourceful man. I would never be who I am today without him - he is my pillar, who grounds me, supports me and helps me heal my deepest, darkest parts of my childhood traumas. 🌳 🙂

In the past I was very disconnected from myself and did what others wanted me to do. For example - even though I didn't actually enjoy studying Polish and German, I did it to please my parents, prove them I can do it, so that they would finally respect me, see my worthiness. After 8 years of horrible stress and forcing myself to finish the studies, the big day finally came but to my surprise, I actually didn't feel that real satisfaction, fulfillment. That was a reminder that if the path to the desired goal is not enjoyable, we will not feel so happy when we finally reach it.🌟

1 month after finishing my studies, I moved to Ireland because I wanted to start a new chapter of my life, feel independent and experience freedom.

The lesson with my studies obviously wasn't strong enough to teach me how important it is to enjoy what I do. In Dublin I chose the first job I could get and the story began to repeat itself.

The voices in my head were saying: "You don't deserve a better job. You don't have a choice, this is what you have to do - sacrifice and suffer in order to survive. Just endure and be satisfied with what you have."

I was so disconnected with my inner compass and I wasn't clear what I actually want because all my life I ignored the feelings of resistance and insisted in a pleasing mode. It was the same with the second, the third and the fourth (last) job, where the pain got so unbearable that I could not ignore it anymore.

After 11 months I just could not handle the pressure anymore and said: "ENOUGH! I refuse to work in an environment that is not aligned with my values, where I feel I am not respected and sucks the life energy out of me!"

I knew deep inside that if I continue this path, I will completely shut down from feeling myself, my soul, my body and become apathic.

So I made one of the best decisions in my life - I quit! I put myself and my values on the first place.

Therefore I realized in my last job how all those years I waited in vain for the external changes and was complaining instead of taking full responsibility for everything that was happening to me.

I created all that - bad relationships where I didn't feel respected, stressful study, jobs I hated etc.

I am now aware of the importance of self-love and how unhealed childhood traumas can affect all areas of our lives.

My two most important realizations of the past years are that:

I was so disconnected with my inner compass and I wasn't clear what I actually want because all my life I ignored the feelings of resistance and insisted in a pleasing mode. It was the same with the second, the third and the fourth (last) job, where the pain got so unbearable that I could not ignore it anymore.

  • changing environment is not always the solution. Physical escapes (moving to Ireland, ending a relationship, changing job) did not really liberate me as I thought. All the old programmes and emotional baggage were there wherever I went. When I became aware of the old pattern of playing a victim, and made the internal shift, the external change followed.
  • The key is not about changing yourself but about accepting all the darkest parts of ourselves. When we are at peace with them, we give space for transformation. Healing childhood traumas was a very important part on my journey to more freedom and happiness.
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I still catch myself sometimes playing a victim role or pleasing others but when I stop myself, become aware of that and observe my two brave little heroes, I remember, who I really am deep down and who I was as a 3-year old girl without all that "baggage"- playful little girl with a spark in her eyes who doesn't take life too seriously, enjoys life in the moment.

Kids are aware of the fact, that they are worthy just because they exist . and don't need to prove their importance to anybody. They just shine in their pure beauty and remind us that everything we are looking for, already exists within us. ✨💎✨